Mr Sissay detailed his experiences in the British . A lot of transracial adoptees talk about how racist their white families are, but actually, its racism that affects them too, and the way they see the world, says Rowe. It was Lemn Sissay. Pool was adopted from an Eritrean orphanage and lived in Sudan and Norway before coming to the UK aged six. Raise me with sunshine, bathe me in light: Lemn Sissay. There are a lot of big emotions flying around the room. Poet Lemn Sissay, with the help of London's Foundling Museum, has gathered 59 athletes, artists, CEOs and others who, like him, spent part of their childhoods in care. I was 10 and we were off to a wedding in our new clothes. Theres all sorts of shapes of family that can work and your community can be whatever you choose it to be. Norman Mills, my new social worker, waited at the gate. I just have to keep mentally strong and reverse those doubts., Participation and projects lead at Pure Insight and business owner, Natalie Hirst spent eight years living in foster care in Greater Manchester and had a mixed experience, but her resilience helped her to develop the strength and skills to overcome many challenges. In two months time they would send me away forever as if I were a stranger. It made me aware that families all look different and thats absolutely fine., Carl Parsons was adopted at five weeks. The theology was perfect, the timing unquestionable and the answer as honest as a sinner could get. Moving unexpectedly from subject to subject, he thanked the girls for producing such wonderful flags devoted to his poetry which he had seen on the English corridor and said had truly moved him. Lucy Sheen was one of 106 Hong Kong Chinese foundlings who were adopted by white British families in the 1950s and 60s. LEMN SISSAY. By isolating and highlighting the success of care-experienced people it can become voyeuristic and soothes decision-makers into thinking that meritocracy is real. You just get used to battling with everybody all the time, and you always have your guard up. I just felt I had to hide it, says Sophie Willan, creator and star of Almas Not Normal, of her experience in care she spent much of her childhood in foster care in Bolton. Tomorrow came and I said it with pride because I thought I had found the answer they wanted me to find: I mustnt love you, I said. None of this is your fault. I remember the smell of wet heather, bracken and fern. Spectacularly ordinary, is how poet Paul Cookson describes his very happy childhood in Lancashire alongside three other siblings, all of them adopted. Its one of the things thats made me the happiest recently, the number of people who will happily associate themselves with their care experience, says Jonny Hoyle. Lemn Sissay was stolen by the state. The church. Her adoption broke down when she was nine and she moved through various childrens homes around Manchester until leaving care at 17 because I came out as a lesbian and it was a Catholic childrens home. Sissay was the official poet of the 2012 London Olympics, has been chancellor of the University of Manchester since 2015, and joined the Foundling Museum 's board of trustees two years later, having previously been appointed one of the museum's fellows. . Seek and ye shall find. This is what they wanted to seek. Lemn Sissay is the author of five poetry collections: Tender Fingers in a Clenched Fist (1988); Rebel Without Applause (1992); Morning Breaks in the Elevator (1999):The Emperor's Watchmaker (2000), and Listener (2008). I loved my town. So, stealing biscuits from the tin, taking pieces of cake without saying please and thank you, staying out late at night, the occasional cigarette they saw this as the devil working inside of me. He has been made an Honorary Doctor by the universities of Manchester, Kent, Essex, Huddersfield and Brunel, and in 2019 . He has been with this family since he was a couple of months old and Mrs Greenwood considers him as theirs. The last entry is his letter requesting to see them, at 18. Natalie Hirst, right, with a girl she met while visiting her grandmother at her caravan site. Im not sure what I think of this, he says, anxiously, before concluding that, if Lemn did it, it must be OK. I was just nudging into adolescence at the time, and theyd recently had their third child, Helen. Just before Christmas in 1983 the 16-year-old "Norman Greenwood" discovered his real name and Ethiopian roots in his birth certificate and some letters from a social worker. Although its going to take time to shift the stigma and change the system, I believe it will happen.. My mother was a manic depressive, so I was in and out of care. Paperback. This is the story of being stolen by the state and his 17 years in local authority care. They encouraged me in everything that Ive wanted to do. Which in Turners case meant becoming a musician hes a founder member of the rock band Elbow. All I knew was that my birth mother, the woman who had my face and my blood, was from Africa and Africa was where poor people were. His is an extraordinary story of family, and identity, lost and . Ben Ashcroft, the author of a memoir titled Fifty-One Moves, was nearly one of them. Lemn Sissay on ITV News (Credit: ITV) He gained significant international recognition in 2012 when he was appointed the official poet at the 2012 London Olympics. Mr Sissay detailed his experiences in the British care system in his autobiography of his early life - My Name Is Why. The Greenwoods were strict Baptists and their foster child's high spirits appeared to wear them down. His Landmark poems are visible in London, Manchester, Huddersfield and Addis Ababa. Lemn Sissay is a poet, author and broadcaster who was the official poet of the London Olympics in 2012. But nothing was coming from there. His own inspiration in poetry has come from ColeridgesRime of the Ancient Mariner. Founder and executive chef, Bramble Dining, Aged eight, Richard Bramble and his older brother Greg, also featured, moved in with a foster family near Leamington Spa. My experience was a horror story, but it wasnt so bad in other ways, says Barrie Sharpe. Visiting my mum in hospital, Id see people screaming in straitjackets. The upside of his experience, he says, was that he had no fear from a very young age, and he connects this to his career successes DJing at Londons Wag Club in the 1980s, starting the clothing label Duffer of St George. In terms of the care system, everybody has such massively different experiences, she says, and the fact that sometimes we are all put into one bracket is, I think, a little bit unfair., Artist, puppet-maker and puppeteer for film and TV, I decided quite early on that whatever happened to me, I wasnt going to be a victim of it, says Marcus Clarke, who lived in two national childrens homes in the early 60s, aged four to seven, while his mother was caring for his ailing father. are! The clamour of questions is almost deafening at Londons Foundling Museum one sunny July morning, when 59 people who, for many different reasons, spent all or part of their childhoods in care, gather for a historic photocall. This is an edited extract from My Name Is Why: a Memoir by Lemn Sissay, published by Canongate on 29 August at 16.99. Ive had experiences with homelessness, she says, and its something that disproportionately affects people who are leaving foster care. I felt important. Now, as he approaches his 55th birthday, he's added another: children's writer. Google "Lemn Sissay" and all the hits will be about him. Postscript: After Woodfields, Lemn Sissay was sent to two more childrens homes. If you just want to be? Baker was transracially fostered from 11 days old. It taught me the middle-class way of life: how to lay a table and make a bed and eat with a knife and fork. At the age of seventeen, after a childhood in a foster family followed by six years in care homes, Norman Greenwood was given his birth certificate. Lemn Sissay MBE, yes put some respeck on his name and add them last 3 letters. After a 31-year campaign he received them in 2015. I loved life. Sissay spent 18 years as a child of the state. I was born in the era of forcible adoption my mother was coerced into giving me up, says Louise Wallwein. And in the Baptist faith a sinner must ask forgiveness for his sins. Lemn Sissay reads from his new collection, Gold From the Stone, at Musicport festival in Whitby, 21-23 October, The poet talks about how his foster parents put him into care at the age of 12 and left him there, and finding his birth mother, Original reporting and incisive analysis, direct from the Guardian every morning, Lemn Sissay They treated me as if I was a Trojan horse sent into the family to destroy it., Lemn Sissay: My foster parents were good people who did bad things. Instead of celebrating success despite the odds, we urgently need to improve the odds.. Growing up, the moment someone found out I was care-experienced, theyd make negative assumptions, says Lucy Reynolds, who had moved in and out of care eight times before being adopted aged seven. The internationally acclaimed poet and playwright Lemn Sissay OBE shares the story of his life by recalling five memorable dishes. Its a mixture of stigma and admiration, says Martin Figura of attitudes towards people in care. I always thought it was something I had to hide. ISBN: 9781786892362. Both places recognised her writing talent and helped her get work published. PAIN Parents against Injustice is a voluntary organisation, run and funded by volunteers who provide help and support to families caught in the care system. We fought with unbridled determination the way brothers do. She is now a psychodynamic psychotherapist and the director of two companies. And he learned that his mother had been pleading for his safe return to her since his birth. I was different. Raise me with sunshineBathe me in lightWash all the shadowsThat fell from the night, 11 December 1974: There are no problems with Norman. It was the end of December 1979 and I was excited when I entered the front room for the family meeting. It was amazing to be seen, says Olumide Popoola about some of the social workers who helped her through care in Germany. He had a brother and sister, Christopher and Sarah, and then Mrs Greenwood had another child, Helen. They refused. Its not a shameful thing any more. Hoyle went into care as a young teenager and at 18 he set up a charity for care leavers called A National Voice: We campaigned to stop children in care leaving with their belongings in bin bags. Now he works for North Yorkshire county council identifying and implementing ways that we can make life better for children in care. Lemn Sissay MBE is a British author and broadcaster. Mum told me they will never visit me because it is my choice to leave them because I didnt love them. You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey. I believed her. It's Mrs Catherine Greenwood, my foster mother of the first eleven years. Mum and Dad must have told everyone in my family to stay away from me. I was causing problems for everyone. A social worker placed Lemn with white Christian foster parents, David and Catherine Greenwood, who lived in Ashton-in-Makerfield. Went on to talk about another placement for Norman without any consideration of how the boy might feel. 3 January 1980: My mum wouldnt hug me as I left, so I hugged her. His love will shine through me and them. Sissay was the official poet of the 2012 London Olympics, has been Chancellor of the University of Manchester since 2015, and joined the Foundling Museum's Board of Trustees two years later, having previously been appointed one of the museum's Fellows.--This text refers to the audioCD edition. Since then his poems have become landmarks, sculpted in granite and built from concrete, recorded on era-defining albums and declaimed in over twenty countries. LEMN SISSAY MBE is a BAFTA nominated International prize winning writer. When Allan Jenkins embarked on his gardening memoir Plot 29, he found himself writing about the helplessness of seed just three paragraphs in and was prompted to revisit his unsettled past, growing up in foster care in south Devon with his older brother Christopher. At the time, I looked exactly like my father and was the same age as he was when I was conceived. I have no one to dispute or agree on the memory of me, good or bad. He learned that his real name was not Norman. The foster parents, Catherine and David Greenwood, went on to have three children of their own. I am not defined by my scars but by the incredible ability to heal. She is also a trustee of the charity Pure Insight, which supports young people to have a better care-leaving experience than she did herself. On the back another poem is handwritten, composed on the train into London this morning, fresh on the page. At the age of 17, after a childhood in a foster family followed by six years in care homes, Norman Greenwood was given his Birth Certificate. I sat at the table and my mum looked at me intensely. In that situation, a mother doesnt see her child, she is wrenched into the memory of the father. 19 April 1978: There is a letter on file from Normans mother, written in 1968, requesting he be returned to her in Ethiopia perhaps Norman should be made aware of this? Social workers report, on which someone has written in block capitals, NOT YET I THINK. I have a very happy childhood memory of being in Scotland on holiday when I was about four. Through my lived experience of being adopted, I co-founded a mental-health organisation called Adoptee Futures, which is led by adoptees and which centres adoptees. Im always moving on to the next thing and thinking somethings going to go wrong., Artistic director, 20 Stories High theatre company. Lemn Sissay was born on 21 May 1967 in Billinge Hospital, near Wigan, Lancashire Higher End, England, UK. Lemn Sissay's traumatic childhood has informed much of the work he has created. Both have experienced it, from very different perspectives, and met in person for the first time on this week's episode of Yahoo podcast White Wine Question Time. I wasnt given anything and nobody contacted me. I loved my family. I know so many care-experienced people whove had that further experience of being homeless, being a rough sleeper, living in hostels, sofa-surfing, all that kind of stuff.. Christopher, Sarah and I were on top of the world. She was pregnant with her son Lemn, who would go on in later life to become a playwright, broadcaster, writer and speaker. It was actually seeing Lemn [Sissay] perform that helped me realise that you could talk about it. I was a very challenging and complex young person. His memoir about that time, Fifty-One Moves, is now taught at universities and Ashcroft is a founding member of the campaign group Every Child Leaving Care Matters. The Fostering Network is the UKs leading fostering charity; it champions fostering and seeks to create vital change. He then secured himself a flat on Poets Corner, a housing estate near Wigan. I hadnt realised then but none of them would contact me ever again for the rest of my life. So it didnt just have to be: this is your problem. Norman Greenwood was given his birth certificate. He describes a happy childhood, a mischievous nature, and warmth between siblings. Something pinched her features. Thus, Sissay began his life as "Norman Mark Greenwood . Buy My Name Is Why By Lemn Sissay. This is Lemn's story, a story of neglect and determination . It was a beautiful thing for me when I found my birth mother, but it was complicated too. Audio CD. Its an incredibly common experience. In care from 11 to 17, Ben Ashcroft moved 51 times between foster parents, residential care, secure units, secure training centre, and finally a young offenders unit. The way I see it, this should be something for people who are going through the system. As he moved into adulthood he was given his birth certificate and saw that his real name was Lemn Sissay and that his mother was called Yemarshet. My name, my brother . My brother Christopher is a year younger than me and I really loved him when I was a kid. His Landmark poems are visible in London, Manchester, Huddersfield and Addis Ababa. A school report calling the boy "a ray of sunshine" is probed for racist overtones, and happily exonerated. It was the sense of an underlining unkindness that stayed with me. Lemn Sissay is a BAFTA-nominated, award-winning writer and broadcaster. He was British and Ethiopian, and he learned that his mother had been pleading for his safe return to her since his birth. Theyre part of a poem-a-day project by their author Paul Cookson, who was born in the north of England and adopted shortly afterwards by a family in Essex. He advocates for children in the local authority's care and is involved in organisations concerning their welfare. Theres a sort of stoicism, he says, of how the experience shaped him. Today, we are as close as she can allow herself to be. To mark National Poetry Day this month, poet and author Lemn Sissay muses on a country childhood of mixed blessings - and why this year he is more hopeful than ever. Sissay spent 12 years with the Greenwoods. He was the eldest of three adopted siblings, all from different families. Over the past few years I sensed I had done something wrong and yet didnt know what it was. Music producer/writer; founder of clothing labels Duffer of St George and Sharpeye; author; one of the two creators of the rare groove scene; photographer; activist. He thrives on praise and affection, in fact he cannot do without it. Social workers report, I hadnt realised I wasnt a happy child. Born in 1967, Sissay was the child of an Ethiopian mother who was forced to give up her son against her will; he was fostered by a white couple from Lancashire who sent him back into care aged. Riordan was in respite care several times during his first four years. Mr and Mrs Greenwood realise there may be many problems ahead with Norman. The skies are grey. The foster parents have spoken of adoption, but they are afraid that investigations may lead to his mother. Social workers report. Christopher was their first-born, but I was their first. The lecture was the latest in a series of Arts and Science presentations which are taking place at the School in the evenings and are open to the general public. It started at The Black Women's Cooperative - The Abasindi Coop - in Moss Side (1984 first paid gig) to todays event at Belfast Book Festival. I looked back, but they were turning to go indoors, mindful of the neighbours. Lemn Sissay as a child, with his foster family He tells me what happened when he met his mother a decade ago. Lemn Sissay: 'My younger self did not deserve what institutions did to him' In a Letter to My Younger Self, the writer-broadcaster speaks candidly with The Big Issue about a childhood in care Adrian Lobb 6 Sep 2019 The memory of my younger self is something I struggle with. The result is an. He put me gently in the car. It was a question to which I already had the answer. 31 December 1979: Message left after Christmas saying that the Greenwoods wanted Norman removed without further notice. Social workers report, 31 December 1979: Spoke to foster parents on telephone. The installation, Superman Is a Foundling, is another of Sissays initiatives, drawing attention to the ubiquity of the orphan in popular culture, and it momentarily shocks the poet and performer Luke Wright to find his own history reflected in a literary trope. You felt like you had to grow up too fast., The issues around growing up in care dont magically stop at 25, just because public policy stops, says Jim Goddard, who went into care in Liverpool aged three. I would narrate the game against Christopher, my invisible brother and Id let him win. His autobiography, Little Big Man (out 14 October), describes how he turned his life around to become an actor and musician. But there is no moment of revelation in this story where everybody hugs. Its about thriving in life and doing what makes you happy., Zarina Bhimji was taken into a childrens home at 14, then a foster family. I slowly realised I was being set up. It was about having support and confidence, and knowing what is possible, she says, I didnt even know what an artist was.. Backhand and forehand smash, defend and attack, spin, cut, lob and slice. My home situation was dire. The world of Lemn Sissay Home Tag Archives: christophergreenwood Mercy Mercy Mercy Mercy Posted on March 2, 2013 by Lemn Sissay 8 Every Ethiopian, Eritrean, American and European who has any interest in race, identity, loss, storytelling, psychology, childhood, religion, nationhood, documentary making, or intercontinental Read more [.] It was only recently that one of her brothers acknowledged what shed gone through and apologised for failing to confront it. Just me. Thats all I knew. I was the eldest. Macavity was such a contrast to my blond, blue-eyed brother Christopher. Lemn Sissay is an award-winning writer, poet, playwright, artist and broadcaster. It must be true. Lemn Sissay was born in the village of Billinge, near Wigan, in 1967 to an Ethiopian mother. A decade ago, Clare Gorham was very much pro transracial adoption. But I felt different. Like "A foster child will expose the cracks in the familial veneer. Rosie Canning, aged four, as a bridesmaid to her foster mothers son, 1962. SOS #Dare2Care Gwynedd Council is calling for more care workers in Gwynedd. I was in care. He didnt disclose his own experience to anyone at university until he co-founded a participatory research project called The Verbatim Formula in 2015. We look at reclaiming the adoption narrative and reframing the worlds view on adoption, and also helping adult adoptees heal from their trauma.. Christopher Goldsmith lived for a month, he writes, then quietly died, slipped away/ Almost never existed Christopher died so that I might have life/ and have it more abundantly., Cookson is one of the success stories of the UKs care system. His shattering, light-searching memoir, My Name Is Why, is the result. These moments stuck in my memory. They wanted me to ask God for forgiveness and through him I will learn to love them. He left school at 15 with one GCSE and two CSEs. Here is an extract from the book. From 13, he lived at a Barnardos care home in Ripon, North Yorkshire. Lemn Sissay. I was excited because the family meeting was just me and Mum and Dad. It was a taxing legal process that ended three years later, in 2015, with an out-of-court settlement. The journey took about 45 minutes, or 45 seconds. In. It maybe shapes certain aspects of your character and your attitude to life, says Tom Riordan of the experience of being in care. Ludford began as a cleaner at Manchester city council before working her way up, earlier this year, to lord mayor. You get to a point where you go, is my curiosity big enough to unsettle so much?, I became a journalist because I didnt see my community represented in the newsroom, says Sophia Alexandra Hall, an Oxford graduate who went into foster care as a teenager. Her care experience in West Yorkshire was reasonably positive, partly because I was just happy to have a home. Her experience of finding herself homeless and powerless after leaving care inspired her to start a campaign, calling4gr8ness.org to support young care leavers in the same predicament. Wherever I lived, my care experience included libraries and reading, and without them I wouldnt be here, says Rosie Canning, who was put into care in London at six weeks. I had teachers who put me in a box once they knew my background and said, Youll end up doing no good. Reynolds, who contributed to her mother Margarets 2021 book about adoption, The Wild Track, now studies ancient history and social anthropology at St Andrews and is involved in activist groups. They were in the trunk back at home. In prison I became an avid reader, he says an experience that paved the way for his career as a novelist. The memoir was warmly received, though Jenkins, who edits Observer Food Monthly, has mixed feelings about becoming a figurehead for care-experienced people. In the process of tracking down his birth parents, which is ongoing, Chris Fretwell learned that he was given up for adoption to cover up a family scandal: his parents were first cousins. It could be: this is everybodys problem., Ive started to connect with my identity as an adopted person a lot more in the past couple of years, says Luke Wright, who was adopted at five weeks. Best known for designing clothes for Diana, Princess of Wales, Bruce Oldfield was born in Durham and fostered at 18 months by a seamstress, Violet Masters, who taught him how to sew. It didnt feel like a traumatic experience at the time, but as I got older it dawned on me that an older, white, middle-class woman with seven black children in her house, beating them with a cane, was a bit strange., Author and artistic director/CEO, Bernie Grant Arts Centre, London, I think of my life in two parts: before I traced my birth family and after, says former Guardian journalist Hannah-Azieb Pool, who detailed the journey in her memoir My Fathers Daughter (republished this year). When he was four, Kriss Akabusis parents returned to Nigeria, leaving him alone in the UK with his younger brother. It was amazing to find him and realise where I get my activism from., Social work leader, campaigner and charity trustee. Buy My Name Is Why: Quick Reads 2022 Main - Quick Reads by Sissay, Lemn (ISBN: 9781838854645) from Amazon's Book Store. Sissay was the official poet of the 2012 London Olympics, has been chancellor of the University of Manchester since 2015, and joined the Foundling Museum's board of trustees two years later, having previously been appointed one of the museum's fellows. Lemn means 'why' in Amharic, the official language of Ethiopia, where celebrated poet Lemn Sissay's mother was from. I was shifted like I had never existed. Gilt of Cain by Michael Visocchi & Lemn Sissay This powerful sculpture was unveiled by the Archbishop Emeritus Desmond Mpilo Tutu on 4 th September 2008. This was the beginning of the end of open arms and warm hugs. On the back another poem is handwritten, composed on the train into London this morning, fresh on the page. It was Lemn Sissay. I loved the sibling rivalry. Lemn Sissay, writer and Chancellor of the University of Manchester, held the Great Hall of Bolton School Girls Division mesmerised during an emotional rollercoaster of an evening. Writer and national campaigner for young people in care, Chris Wild has written two books about his experiences in care, Damaged and The State of It, and has spent the past decade campaigning to improve the care system. Healing can hurt too. I studied the question for a day and a night, I prayed to God, and I read the Bible to see if a passage would answer the question. Sheen has made a documentary about her experience, a powerful study of cultural displacement and linguistic disenfranchisement called Abandoned Adopted Here. Ive forgiven my foster mother. Ive loved mussels ever since. Social services placed the baby Lemn into long-term foster care, advising the foster family to treat this as adoption. They were religious, and theyd never had [to deal with] an adolescent before. I was challenged with a lot of preconceived ideas and biases by the adults I was around, about whether I could be a mum and make it through against all odds. Walker managed to hold on to her child and was later able to focus on education, which saved me, she says. Born in London, Henry was privately fostered at six months by a wonderful couple in Weston-super-Mare who encouraged her dreams of becoming an actor shes currently starring in Mad House in the West End. Hes now a fellow of the Royal Society of Arts and founder of a campaign group Every Child Leaving Care Matters. Mum and Dad said I was like Macavity. Lemn Sissay is a BAFTA-nominated, award-winning international writer and broadcaster. Where I grew up, in a very white conservative area, there werent any other people who looked like me for the best part of 16 years, she says. Giving him up for adoption, he thinks, was a massively selfless thing to do. I asked when my clothes and toys would be arriving. I was nine. 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